Waiting for Willmael Delgado

I always wonder how the family court system works i keep hearing (the best interest of the child) but what does that mean how much do you have how much are you already alienated from your child. When a therapist or the guardian ad litem  of the child can't not get a logical explanation of why the child does not want nothing to do with the other parent just a simple i don't want to talk about it don't they need to get to the bottom of why. I know why kids wanted some peace from all the drilling that been going on from the other end. like any other kid he just want to make it work so its stop  and it will only stop once he have chose once he have give what the other end wants. How is a parent suppose to wait for your child to contact you if that information is not facilitated this is how no matter where i go my number still the same there is not changing it 8 yrs and going because if he want to go to his file at family court he can get it and call and i be waiting for him. Bu...

This coming September you are not only going to be 13 is also going to be 4 years since the last time i sow you it makes my heart heavy to think is being this long and that i miss you everyday i hope you doing Good in everything your hearth and mind put effort to do. My Grandmother use to say this all the time "No hay mal que dure cien anos ni cuerpo que lo recista" there no sickness that last a hundred years nether body that will take it and in a blink of and eye you are going to be turning 13 omg my baby a teen                                                                                 I love you baby blue and i will always wait for you                                         ...

Hey Willmael hope you are doing good just wanted to let you know you be having a nice or nephew soon march 2017 but i hope February like Jojo and Keyshlanie the family is growing and we miss you we will pray for you all the way stay safe and make good choices baby blue                                                                                                                                                                                                                ...

To ask questions to get answers to get to know you and you get to know me not for others people opinions or ideas they have put on you or in me to give us a chance to have a relationship to move forward I  Love you know that i will always waait for you and i miss you  and i Will be here for when you are ready

    I know I'm not perfect I have made so many mistakes along the way, mistakes that will have a hole life  of consequences  things there are done and you can never change they happen the difference you can make is how can you move on from that. To start you got to admit you where wrong you made a mistake and trust me everybody does, some bigger some smaller but there no human that is perfect don't bet up yourself for it. Now comes the moment in witch you need to reflect how to go and repair what is done how one can amend or re build  some mistakes are pretty easy to deal with some others are the challenge of your life. Its not always easy to know how to go about it sometimes one tiny mistake can be inseparable some others can be an universe of big and all you need to do is say sorry and you be forgiven I think is because is not always about your prospective or how you so it its a little more than that  is how the other party so it and thrust me maybe somet...

While dealing with  alienation one of the most often cards used is interception I remember one message I send my son Willmael for X-mas from Santa Claus saying a message showing pictures of him with us   to my son I send it to his grand mother email so he can see it but of course she intercepted the video say it never work and made her own. In another occasion when I find out I was having a girl knowing he wanted a little sister I was so exited to tell him, and just when I was going to tell him she hang up the phone when they finally answer it my son reaction was yeah yeah yeah i know is going to be a girl, is does little stills or things that make interrelations  with your kid dull. I remember telling her I want to take him here so he can have fun and she will bring him first there i'm not talking about something she knew about it was something you have tell her is new and you will like to take him in your next outage with him. She will go as far of not answering the pho...

My first years in this journey I was trying so hard to be what ever the grandmother of my son wanted me to be but no matter what I did no mater how hard every single thing i did and do is was never right if I was living her son I was not good because I will give my son a stepdad some day if I stay with him it was in a abusive relationship that cut not be allowed to be with my son so you see I don't win . I didn't work i wasn't able to afford having my kid and i did i was going to neglecting him.If i was serious i was so gloom for him if i was to happy i was a crazy woman the where no making happy and it will never be because i'm not her but she wanted to be me my son mother instead of his grandmother.No matter what i will be always bash by her when you realize that you will understand not to stop being you because there is not pleasing. Another thing she will play everything against you if you refuse to do as exactly her step by step instructions you are a bad parent bu...