the other point of view

When you live as an alienated parent you live with pain, sorrow and regrets but you also ask yourself how are things holding up in your child end . You tray to understand what they going thru but you only can see the tip of the iceberg there is much more to what you know. For instance you know the story of how thinks came to be but on the other side to your kid there is another story and believe me the narcissistic parent or in my case grandmother will make it something that will come from a novel, you will be almost be he spit of the devil or in my case the back bone of him. She will be the very sacrifice mother Theresa with the peace price  she never in her entire existence made or did anything to deserve the bad trash taking from anyone ever. betrayal is a key in alienation you with me or against me if you love the other end you don't love me any attempt of the child to make a relationship with the other parent it be reprehended so the will be no option for the child to comply with the desire behavior or suffer the consequences and there is no safe heaven for them if they want to make their own minds is hate or be the enemy of the only source of care and dependency that is allow.I also question myself of how Law or the judicial system can get of the money train and really do what is really the best interest of the child how they will make a safe heaven for kids that are cut in the middle a way to assure them is ok to have an opinion and not to suffer any consequences for loving the target parent for wanting to have a relationship with out fear. Parental alienation is not a syndrome but i can created a life of issues to a individual who is expose to this behavior and live with the long lasting emotional burden of being a victim of it. With this in mind the only one thing i can do is Pray to God for wisdom patient endurance and most of all my child who is the main victim of this situation. Willmael you are very love don't  ever thing you are not love or wanted because that was never the situation you are always in my heart mind and prayers you are more love that you know




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